It’s Time to Go from Roommates to Soulmates

Break Free from Disconnection and Confusion Before It Becomes Irreversible. Use Our Proven System to Build the Passion, Closeness, and Success You Deserve in Your Relationship

Your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to learn and use simple communication prompts to communicate confidently with your partner and feel closer and more connected to each other.

The CLOSER Method

  • Are you wanting to feel closer to your partner?
  • Are you struggling to connect after having a new baby?
  • Do you feel alone in your relationship?
  • Do you miss the connection and time you shared with your partner?
  • Are you unhappy with your relationship?
  • Do you wish your relationship felt more supportive and connected?

How many times have you thought...

...we just can't communicate!

I WANT TO IMPROVE MY RELATIONSHIP

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📅 Wednesdays, 7-8 PM | Feb 26 – April 2
🎁 BONUS: Sign up before Feb 14, and you’ll get an exclusive Q&A session from 8-8:30 PM each week for personalized support!

See yourself feeling light and free as you enjoy connecting with your partner doing activities you love because you’re able to communicate efficiently and effectively.

Good communication skills allow you to not get the pit in your stomach when you hear “Can we talk?” and instead to feel calm and capable of hearing your partner with compassion and empathy.

I WANT TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

HOW DO I KNOW THIS?

I’ve been there myself. 

Career’s on track , kids are growing up fine, but whispering sweet nothings has turned into just… whispers about diaper brands? Been there. That’s exactly why I built this program – because keeping the love alive amidst the chaos is a journey I’ve walked, not just talked.

Listen, it’s easy to get all tangled up in parenting and forget that before the kids, it was just you two. I’ve been helping couples sort this out for over 20 years, guiding them back to the love that started it all, without the fluff – just genuine connection enhancements, life style choices

You know, back when I was crisscrossing the globe, from Mali to South Korea, I wasn’t just racking up frequent flyer miles. I was collecting stories, insights, and a deep appreciation for what connects us all, no matter the zip code – especially when it comes to love and family life.

 

Ever sat down and thought, ‘Hey, my relationship could be a bit more like that couple’s we saw at the park?’

Well, I’ve been there. With kids running around and life throwing curveballs, I’ve dug deep into my own marriage, working each day to keep that spark alive. It’s practical work, real talk, and a lot of heart.

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What others say about this class...

Kirsten’s class is fantastic. My husband and I had wanted to improve our communication for a long time, but we both have stressful jobs and care for two young children. We didn’t feel there was room in our schedule or budget to find a therapist.

We were able to complete Kirsten’s course together over several lunch hour sessions during our work day. We immediately had some useful tools to help us over some of our most regular communication hurdles. Some of the tools we’ve used many times now. Kirsten teaches skills that can immediately improve your relationship.

Whether you’re short on time/money, or new to therapy, I’d highly recommend this class!

Ellen, working mother to young kids in the SF Bay Area

This could be your relationship too!

I really enjoyed this class.

It helped my partner and me get past some of the underlying tension we have in our relationship. We were able to understand each other’s perspective on more complex issues that exist in our relationship.

The framework presented enabled us to have for meaningful conversations on issues we have been challenged to solve. I would highly recommended this class at any stage of a relationship.

Kim, a 50 year old female in the SF Bay Area in a 3 year relationship

We spend years thinking about what life will be like when we find the love of our lives. Then we find it, but it turns out relationships need work

For over 20 years as a Marriage and Family therapist I have supported over 380 couples to make the effort more efficient and less effortful. Now these couples enjoy the benefits of feeling skillful and confident when they talk with each other about their hopes and dreams as well as their challenges and disappointments. Together they can now negotiate good agreements where neither partner feels resentful and they both get the most possible of what they each want.

READY TO LEARN HOW?
I WANT TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY

Introducing...

The CLOSER Method

By the end of this 7 week program, you will discover the relationship dynamics that have led you to feel distant, confused, and lonely in your relationship, so you can can break free from those dynamics once and for all and create the relationship you’ve always wanted

Here's what's inside the program:

Live Trainings

7 live calls (90 minutes each) with replays available. Each will be offered weekly. 

Each call will involve interactive training for the first 60 minutes and coaching for the final 30. 

Guides and Techniques

Workbooks with fillable handouts to support each module so you can easily implement what you learn. 

Visuals and templates will be provided

A private Facebook Group to get your questions answered and get support and encouragement. 

BONUSES

A 45 minute private coaching call with Kirsten for you and your partner (valued at $245)

My BONUS course: ‘Getting Started: Foundations of Communication’. This pre-recorded course will set you up for success (valued at $197).

PROGRAM BREAKDOWN

Here’s what you’ll learn and explore in each module.

Module 1: Connect to your desires

Experience the joy of knowing where you want to grow as you recall and build on the exhilarating passion that first attracted you to your partner and focus on what you truly want to experience in your relationship going forward.

Module 2: Learn to love and set limits with your inner child

Unlock the power of vulnerability and compassion by learning how to skillfully express your childhood wounds and desires, paving the way for a relationship rich in connection and closeness.

Module 3: Open conversations effectively

Transform conversations into bridges that reconnect you amidst life’s chaos, by confidently using the best form of conversation for your desired outcome.

Module 4: Stay calm and communicate

Practice self soothing strategies to stay centered and grounded during life’s upsets, bringing peace to your relationship and nurturing a sanctuary of calm understanding.

Module 5: Explore problems negotiate agreements

Harvest the wisdom of two minds to shape a future woven from shared dreams, where each solution is negotiated in a way that brings you closer, celebrating love’s united effort against life’s challenges.

Module 5: Repeat for everlasting engagement

Create moments of togetherness that go beyond routine, enveloping you both in shared experiences that reinforce your bond and deepen your love.

READY FOR A DEEPER LOVE?

The Closer Method

$ 497
00
  • 6 live calls (90 minutes each) with replays available. Each will be offered weekly.
  • Workbooks with fillable handouts to support each module so you can easily implement what you learn.
  • Visuals & Templates
  • Unlimited access to the course materials
  • A private Facebook Group to get your questions answered and get support and encouragement.
  • FAST ACTION BONUS: Sign up before midnight on Saturday, February 10th PT to get A 45 minute private coaching call with Kirsten for you and your partner (valued at $245)
  • BONUS course: 'Getting Started: Foundations of Communication'. This pre-recorded course will set you up for success (valued at $197)
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There’s NO RISK!

Join the journey with ‘Communicate to Connect.’ Stick with us for 7 weeks, engage with the training calls or replays, participate actively, and apply what you learn. If the sparks don’t fly and you don’t feel more connected with your partner, then we’ve missed the mark, and you deserve your money back.

Simple as that.

Show us you’ve done the work and we’ll take care of the rest.